After loading the user's relays from their contact event, connect to new relays

Closes: #1298

damus/Models/HomeModel.swift

@@ -858,6 +858,7 @@ func load_our_relays(state: DamusState, m_old_ev: NostrEvent?, ev: NostrEvent) {
     
     if changed {
         save_bootstrap_relays(pubkey: state.pubkey, relays: Array(new))
+        state.pool.connect()
         notify(.relays_changed, ())
     }
 }