mute: migrate Lists.swift to use new MuteItem

This patch depends on: Adding new structs/enums for new mute list

- Rewrites Lists.swift to use new mute list option
    - This leads to a lot of changes for changing the type from RefId to the new MuteItem
- Update & relay new mute list in AddMuteItemView.swift (fixing previous patch TODO)
- Renames `list` to `list_deprecated`
    - We need to keep this since existing users might have an old mute list

Related: https://github.com/damus-io/damus/issues/1718
Related: https://github.com/damus-io/damus/issues/856
Lighting Address: fishcharlie@strike.me

Signed-off-by: Charlie Fish <contact@charlie.fish>
Reviewed-by: William Casarin <jb55@jb55.com>
Signed-off-by: William Casarin <jb55@jb55.com>

damus/Nostr/NostrEvent.swift

@@ -798,3 +798,15 @@ func to_reaction_emoji(ev: NostrEvent) -> String? {
     }
 }
 
+extension NostrEvent {
+    /// The mutelist for a given event
+    ///
+    /// If the event is not a mutelist it will return `nil`.
+    var mute_list: Set<MuteItem>? {
+        if (self.kind == NostrKind.list_deprecated.rawValue && self.referenced_params.contains(where: { p in p.param.matches_str("mute") })) || self.kind == NostrKind.mute_list.rawValue {
+            return Set(self.referenced_mute_items)
+        } else {
+            return nil
+        }
+    }
+}

damus/Nostr/NostrKind.swift

@@ -17,7 +17,8 @@ enum NostrKind: UInt32, Codable {
     case boost = 6
     case like = 7
     case chat = 42
-    case list = 30000
+    case mute_list = 10000
+    case list_deprecated = 30000
     case longform = 30023
     case zap = 9735
     case zap_request = 9734