Revert "Reduce battery usage by using exp backoff on connections"

This is causing pretty bad fail to reconnect issues

This reverts commit 252a77fd97, reversing
changes made to a611a5d252.

damus/Views/Relays/RelayStatus.swift

@@ -7,16 +7,6 @@
 
 import SwiftUI
 
-extension RelayConnection.State {
-    var indicatorColor: Color {
-        switch self {
-        case .connected: return .green
-        case .connecting, .reconnecting: return .yellow
-        default: return .red
-        }
-    }
-}
-
 struct RelayStatus: View {
     let pool: RelayPool
     let relay: String
@@ -26,10 +16,18 @@ struct RelayStatus: View {
     @State var conn_color: Color = .gray
     
     func update_connection_color() {
-        guard let relay = pool.relays.first(where: { $0.id == relay }) else {
-            return
+        for relay in pool.relays {
+            if relay.id == self.relay {
+                let c = relay.connection
+                if c.isConnected {
+                    conn_color = .green
+                } else if c.isConnecting || c.isReconnecting {
+                    conn_color = .yellow
+                } else {
+                    conn_color = .red
+                }
+            }
         }
-        conn_color = relay.connection.state.indicatorColor
     }
     
     var body: some View {