readme: include new mailing lists

README.md

@@ -94,12 +94,34 @@ damus implements the following [Nostr Implementation Possibilities][nips]
 
 Contributors welcome! Start by examining known issues: https://github.com/damus-io/damus/issues.
 
+### Mailing lists
+
+We have a few mailing lists that anyone can join to get involved in damus development:
+
+- [dev][dev-list] - development discussions
+- [patches][patches-list] - code submission and review
+- [product][product-list] - product discussions
+- [design][design-list] - design discussions
+
+[dev-list]: https://damus.io/list/dev
+[patches-list]: https://damus.io/list/patches
+[product-list]: https://damus.io/list/product
+[design-list]: https://damus.io/list/design
+
 ### Code
 
-[Email patches][git-send-email] to jb55@jb55.com are preferred, but I accept PRs on GitHub as well. 50,000 sats will be rewarded for patches sent via email or [nostr][patchstr]
+[Email patches][git-send-email] to patches@damus.io are preferred, but I accept PRs on GitHub as well. 10,000 sats will be rewarded for accepted patch sets sent via email. Please include a bolt11 below the `---` line after in the commit message so that you can get paid for shipping code!
 
+Recommended settings when submitting code via email:
+
+```
+$ git config sendemail.to "patches@damus.io"
+$ git config format.subjectPrefix "PATCH damus"
+$ git config --global sendemail.annotate yes
+$ git config format.signOff yes
+```
+ 
 [git-send-email]: http://git-send-email.io
-[patchstr]: https://patchstr.com
 
 ### Privacy
 Your internet protocol (IP) address is exposed to the relays you connect to, and third party media hosters (e.g. nostr.build, imgur.com, giphy.com, youtube.com etc.) that render on Damus. If you want to improve your privacy, consider utilizing a service that masks your IP address (e.g. a VPN) from trackers online.